A Long time ago my wife asked me if I would sleep with her lady friend who has been single and hasn't had a man as long as we've known her. It is a fine line between sarcasm and stupidity, and Bachelor straddles it. If you ridicule a man or tell him he is weak or a coward when he opens up to you, you will find that this is one of the quickest ways to make him fall in love with someone else who gives him a safe place to land. I always did say that anyone male or female wants to stray they will, married or not. Some like the fact that some married men are easy and can't really have any claims on their time. I just now have to try to leave my past behind me and look forward to the future.
I don't have much to offer myself but myself even though we are poor we have our love for each other. She would rather date a man who is a decade younger but looks almost her age. Anon - If you knew this Martian Bachelor and the history of their posts on this site, you would see that either 1 they are just posting to garner attention by being sarcastic or stupid, or 2 they really are stupid and doing it to be funny. At the time though her own problems were too deep to take healthy decisions or to think of someone else like his wife. This is because the woman presumably has worked for many years and is in a very healthy financial situation. What his wife doesn't know won't hurt her.
Men Have Fragile Egos Your husband wants to feel like your hero. There are some who seek out married people for the thrill of it. Thou shalt not commit adultery. The younger men are so eager to please and lovemaking lasts much longer, no wham bam, thank you mam! What I mean is, when you are single you sometimes chase after the man or you make it known that you are looking for someone. I am under his care still into my 3rd year and all he gets from me is 'professionalism' all the way.
We get down to destination with our friends and theirs 4 of us and 1 bed. They get kicks out of having a new man, as they get stuck in loveless marriages and so on. This thrill of taking the lead in money matters may be quite an exciting and nurturing feeling for the older woman. No matter how many times people makes these promises to themselves, it's nearly impossible to follow through. Poaching has a possible deep, evolutionary origin which humans adapted for certain reproductive or survival problems.
I am in 50's, the guy is in his late 30's! I had previously dated a mixture of ages and found the younger guys to be more playful and fun and appreciating me more than older men and men my age or near my age. It is all about fun and nothing but fun. However, no woman, single or married, has ever given me any idea that she would want to have an affair. I'll leave you with the comments I gleaned from speaking to some of my twenty-something peers about why they went for married men. What they feel is morally acceptable differs greatly with what most of society feels is morally acceptable. How could you choose a man who is already with someone else so deeply they got married? So bellyaching that all wives of poached husbands are helpless victims and that mean single women are the big bad bullies that ruined their lives better think again. He wasn't just married but also had a toddler with his wife.
You are a league above the rest; you have played outside the rules of the dating game and it is a thrill ride. If someone is married, and truly respects thier union, they won't be interested in this extra activity. They are definitely stacked against you. He may tell you that you're the one he really wants to be with and that he doesn't want to stay with his wife, but the vast majority of the time he'll just be saying that to keep you with him a little bit longer. Whether conscious or unconscious, I've have no doubt projected a measure of that, myself.
He is a very nice guy, but my sister is the single one , not me. If you need understanding then, seek understanding. Why people waste other peoples time is beyond me. Single men had flirted with since we had married 5 years before but she hadn't responded in kind. He will have a job soon from the course he is doing now and will be able to support and help me with my teenage son who lives with us.
Being turned down is a quick way to get your ego bruised. I tried as a single guy after my 30 year marriage, dating women here in the United States. But honey, you've got to know that almost never happens. I now have a great fella a little closer to my age, he is 35 which is 10 years younger and very handsome! Valerie Golden Mate poaching is a robust phenomenon, and it is here to stay. I have been with my bf for one year now and he found me on a dating app. Now some women drop many of their identities and just stick to the mom's identity after giving birth. I was being loyal and faithful to him for the sake of our child.
Getting involved in an affair with a married man is a dangerous flame to flirt with. When you do need to criticize him, you need to do so lovingly, and then praise him when he tries to change. After my divorce I started dating much younger and met several very handsome guys, some quite young. But did she give up any right to privacy when she allegedly embarked on an affair with the French president, and what rights does a mistress have anyway? Some women are not ready to get married or may not be ready to commit to having children. Unfortunately, that's not how it works. Ms Sophie Snits can be fun, depending on the topic.