Emotions like that are just embedded in our soul. She literally went from sending wedding ring pictures for me to look at, to talking of breaking up and eventually breaking up within a 48 hour timeframe. I come along, treat her like a princess, improve her self esteem she said so herself her first kiss and sexual partner and we were together for 6 months. Please help me my life is so shitty withought this girl : She is my best friend only, one I trust and believe so much. She states she accepts my apology but refuses to see me, why? People are saying find someone new she was your first love. As the years went by we kept in touch, most times, I'd say 90% of the time, it was her reaching out to me whether she was seeing someone or not.
I thought i cant live without her anymore. If you dont change but keep promising to, she will reach it. So you broke up with them but soon realized that they were the best boyfriend you ever had. Things seems to go well, but all of a sudden she blow up some litlle mess into a reason for broke me up. However, recently we have been going on dates.
The first month and a half after the break up I begged and pleaded because she was my first. It became clear that she'd interpreted the contact I'd had with her after the break up as manipulative. I had left my house with my boy and her there and one thing led to another and they ended up hanging out afterward and having a kid. Like a Mexican and Afghan, having a love child. We made lots of plans for the future, and both showed an equal amount of passion and commitment throughout the whole relationship. Look after yourself first and love yourself or how do you expect anyone to love you Me and my ex were together for 4 and a half months.
I again asked her about him, no response, so I asked her family and they said that he is a grade school friend and nothing to worry about. As I was typing this she texted me for the first time since it happened saying she was sorry that she told me one thing Friday night, and broke up the next and said that was not fair of her. That could easily tell her that you are no longer interested. Unfortunately my ex girlfriend is in an on-going battle with an eating disorder. Date em like you hate em and treat em like you dont need them.
I went to sleep at 1am and woke up just now 5am and can't go back to sleep because all I can think about is her. It seems to me you have bent over backwards to try to make this work, but that wasn't enough. She responded with what r u talking about and I then responded with I know your sleeping with him I could tell how lit up your face was when you looked at him and then told her one more time that she was going to sleep with him. Don't be around all the time and available, but be ready to step in as soon as she realises the error she's made. Message her saying that you were scared to come on too strong before, and if she will give you another chance, you will show your true passion for her. We parted but stayed in constant touch and contact.
When you see a dog on the street suffering from pain you would attend, but I suppose I was not even as worthy as a dog to her. I know he was stressed at the time due to workload and he had recently moved houses from being alone to living with a house with his friends. Now she has a new boyfriend or at least has other guys interested in her and you want her back. . I will pay attention to what she says and not think I know better than her. My hurt turned into anger and lashing out at him. I moved out in August and we still would go on dates, talk and sleep together.
It is always possible to game someone into getting back with you, but this usually involves acting like someone else, and why would you want to do that when you could meet someone tomorrow who likes you for you. You or your ex moved far away? I believe they didnt want me to get her pregnant and ruin her future and they were pushing her to break up with me, even though that topic never was touched by us i felt like she had a hard time with her parents, she told me she used to defend me everytime her parents used to talk about me. Thanks so much for this site and your advice! With your case however, I think your ex probably needs some time to sort herself out. We often think they are too needy or dramatic and dont see that whats minor to us is major to them. Hi am Jeff,and going through a lot after ma girlfriend became my ex. Love should never hurt it should be the one thing thst makes you happy. She cried in school and tried to talk to me but i did not had any feelings left.
How do I turn this around to platonic at the least and repair it to a couple at best? I slap her cheek once not in purpose and I cried over her because I felt so wronged for doing that. Don't interrupt this, she is remembering how much fun it was being with you. He asks questions about what I think and when I answer its not to his liking, or I may suggest things that would help, but he says Im making him out as if he knows nothing. He also thinks with all his jealousy and downs all the time he stopped me from smiling and blooming. I call her shell call me a couple hours later.
Now i just want to really figure out what exactly happened, our fight doesnt look to be the real reason of the break up. All she does all day long is work and go to college classes. So I let it be figured we would talk in the morning about it, so we had sex and went to bed. I didn't speak to her nor reply to her text messages she would send me every other day, for about 2 or 3 months. She has all sorts of reasons to doubt the stability of a future relationship with you. Easy, generally speaking there are no super hard feelings between the two.
Same looks… Same personality… Same job… Same weird birthmark on your left buttcheek… Too much? We stayed in contact for the next 6 weeks and we didnt stop saying and writing how special we are for each other and how much we hope for the day we see each other again. I've considered sending a message but the one thing is we arent friends on any social media sites and certainly dont wish to come off like I'm snooping or not minding my own business. I was withdrawn from everything nor my friends were any help. I know he didnt do anything wrong at all, apart of sending me all those messages still while he is moving on already. He was stuck in a city three hours away from me with his studies. About being friends with her; are you saying that I should just go with the flow about being friends with her for now? Sunday she texted and told me what was going on.