It hurts but it's still a good feeling. Foreplay is what will get you there. But most hymens are thin and break long before a girl has sex. Just make sure he's gentle with you and takes it slow. Anyway he is still young and exited ,wants to explore stuff. Agreeing with what others have said it does hurt for a brief period because your body is stretching to make room for him in some cases it even hurts the guy too and you can bleed as well but its not a lot at all, about the same amount as a paper cut. Your genitalia will be sensitive if you are a virgin so there will be some pain on entry.
But i lost it with someone i trust. Before you know about the right time to have sex after losing virginity, here is what you should know about the hymen. I hope you will use every precaution against sexually transmitted disease and unwanted pregnancy. If the wound is mild, it might take 3 — 4 days time for it to heal. When I lost my virginity, it didn't hurt when he first barely went in but as he went deeper and reached my hymen, it was kind of uncomfortable. So, try not to be scared because tension will make the pain worse. It weren't her period because she had came off that the week before, I need some help, quick! I hope that this event will be memorable in a romantic kind of way.
But usually by the third or fourth time it's all uphill:. I just lost mine about three months ago and it hurt really badly. He had been fingering me for a little while before and I decided that he was the person I wanted to lose it to. After a few times, the pain will not be there any more and providing your lover is not aggressive, it will be pleasurable all the way from then on. Hymens can break from things like gymnastics, riding horses, and using tampons.
A lot of people think the first time has to be painful, bloody, or both. When it first enters, I'm not gonna lie to you. But, they get the hang of it after a few tries so you will too. Not all girls have it when they decided to have intercourse too. My bf also did the same thing but I told him to wait till I was ready and he waited for three years and that proved how much he loved me. He put it in slowly but then once he got in he pounded away fast, before I knew it I felt a pool of liquid start to form under me, when I tried to tell him, he put his hand over my mouth.
Can you have sex immediately after your hymen breaks or ruptures, or should you wait a while because of the pain? Whether you should have sex soon after or a while later depends on the thickness of the hymen, the type of the wound and the time it might take to heal. Bleeding can be caused by a thick hymen tearing. If the wound is slightly severe, it might take a week or two for the wound to heal. Physically, maybe it wouldn't be as painful as when a girl loses her virginity. It really depends on who you are losing your virginity to. That can hurt or feel good to some women- but I think it'd be best to steer clear for the first few times till you figure out what's going on. Use protection and remember this is your first time you will remember it for the rest of your life make sure it is with someone you can stand to remember or want to remember when you repeat the story later on in life, remember no matter how young you are std are out there and anyone can be a carrier please be safe you will be fine just make sure it is what I want.
. Also size matters a lot as well. My relationship at your age was the one I lost my virginity in and we were messing around for oh a good year before I decided I was ready for more. Started out to be second base, but then when the guy realized I was ready to get it over with, he made a decision to sneak me into his bedroom, after a six mile walk to his house. I thought the fingering would have helped it, but it really didn't. She needs to understand her body and lubrication.
If you're not wet then the friction will hurt a lot more, if you're wet then its slippery and goes in a lot easier. So if you are a boy the only kind of pain I know of that you could go through is the pain of embarrassment. Sex has had it's ups and downs since then, but I could have gone without the experience. Luckily, he was really gentle with me and was really slow, and made it clear over and over that if I wanted to stop we could. You never know, maybe the only thing that he wants is sex. Especially if your nervous from not knowing what to expect or are tense. It was alarming, but I figured he was just takeing the masculine role so I should be submissive.
You did not say if it is also the first time of the girl. It actually hurt the first couple of times,but then it started to feel a lot better. If the person you are with is gentle and careful it wont hurt as much as it would if your with someone who isn't gentle. She needs to know the difference between sex myths and sex facts. As he goes deeper, there will be more discomfort.