Hard, staring eye contact is, as mentioned already — creepy. But this eye contact will be even. Sitting As you sit down to interact with a girl, you should physically lean back slightly. These are any habits that make you seem nervous, uncomfortable or submissive — such as scratching, fidgeting, cracking your knuckles, slouching, leaning in or habitually looking down. I'm not saying everyone who cannot hold eye contact with hot women is completely insecure, but it's probably safe to say there is some lingering doubt that she even finds you attractive.
To train your posture you preferably want to find a full-length mirror so you can see the difference. Even if she is wearing a revealing outfit, staring at her body will make her uncomfortable and it will signal too much interest early on. And when it does, it gets real nasty. I introduced my friend and he had some brief chit chat but he was just boring his eyes into mine. It creates a strong bond between us. Then put one or both of your thumbs in your pocket or belt.
A good exercise for someone who is new or shy is to practice never breaking eye contact with people before they break it with you. Intensity demonstrates passion, maybe even dangerous passion a rare quality that women are vulnerable to. In contrast, avoid sitting in the feminine manner with your legs closed or crossed. One of the first signs that attraction is in the air is through a sizzling eye contact. Instead give her a cool intelligent 007 stare, like you are thinking deeply about things while she speaks.
Use each technique based on the situation you are in. Constant, solid eye contact can be intimidating an unnatural and will have the opposite effect of being seductive. You now have a default high status posture that you can use. So next time you are out, just work on that. Any negative states like this will send people running.
Cardio training will also allow you to lose fat and build lean muscles, both of which contribute to your physical attractiveness. Likewise, when she speaks it shows that you find what she is saying interesting and worth listening to. Once you have gotten in shape you can maintain it either through an active lifestyle or by continuing to exercise two to three times per week. In seduction girls have to be submissive and eyes looking down is a sign of submission. In the summer you could probably go for 200-300.
Next, let your hands fall naturally to your sides. So when your listener sees this they will think you are trying to remember something and keep on listening to you. If you look away when arguing with someone you have all but lost the argument. Intimate Eye Contact The other situation for eye contact is up close, conversational eye contact. Remember, by definition, eye contact is mutual. Saw someone else with this comment months ago. I've played around with eye contact a fair bit.
Movements Your movements should be relaxed and smooth, as opposed to fast or jerky. Like should I do the thing where you stare until they look away? A stare out of curiosity, a stare because of interest and a stare from intent observation etc, all convey in them certain inner states of the mind. The basic idea behind is that people tend to roll their eyes in a certain direction when they are engaged in deep thought. There will be a noticeable improvement in your posture as a result. You need to master the 4 key areas of non-verbal game. It's the same as it is right now, while typing this post.
When you are speaking, your eye contact tells her that what you say is important. Majority of things you teach make sense and are correct. Opposed to wall-flowering alone in the bar huge turn off. When you stand with a good posture and move in a powerful way it will not only make you seem more confident. Sometimes the girl may deliberately present opportunities for you to appreciate her assets by looking away or otherwise flaunting her body to you.
When I was single I always knew when a girl was interested in me through her eyes, now that I am married if I get the same signs I discourage eye contact. The Crazies signify delusion, hopeless emotion, and the complete. If you have good body language, vibe or state then you will get girls check you out. Once the interaction has started you can relax the smile a bit, and use it more as a reward for her gaining your approval. Women find this incredibly attractive. That is where I really learned the art of eye contact, and I'm glad I did.
Out of these, 60% of your communication is conveyed through your body language, 30% through tonality and only 10% through the words you use. You think you are looking at both eyes which is of course impossible but in actuality your eyes are darting back and forth. Distribute your weight evenly across both feet and stand directly over them. Then widen your feet so they are shoulder width apart, this is a very alpha stance. Learning to read these signals can help the identify warmer and get his bearings in a social situation. When she breaks and you resume afterwards, you can go for the other eye but I usually keep with one the right.