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How to Date a Girl That Wants to Go Slow

she wants to take it slow and see what happens

I wouldn't share all of this obviously. She called me two days before she left to tell me good bye. The oldest trick in the book is to use the promise of sex, and sex itself, as a power game to train guys like Pavlov did to his dog. I would expect that type of behavior from a 16-23 yr old, not you. I just am questioning my ability to judge character and want to really know that someone is being honest with me before I put myself in a position where I could get hurt.

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ex girlfriend says she wants to take it slow...any suggestions?

she wants to take it slow and see what happens

My defense mechanism wants to pop up and run so I don't get hurt. Things will blossom, or they won't. Showing respect for her boundaries can help her to feel more comfortable in the relationship and build a greater sense of trust between the two of you, deepening your connection. It does require quite a bit of patience, however. I was going to do something for her when I was coming over but I forgot and she said oh you can do it next time. And she told me how she really liked me and wanted to be my girlfriend.

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Let's take is slow and see where things go

she wants to take it slow and see what happens

I left the next morning without waking her up and sent her a text later that afternoon. Have you ever had a casual relationship develop into something romantic? I think guys just want to conquer and not think of the good of the relationship that could become permanent if they really became good and trusted friends first. The first wanted his cake and to eat it too! It was all pretty textbook as far as kino escalation and going for the first kiss at a non-awkward point. I don't want to date someone who sets themselves up for failure or assumes things about me. Take it slow, see what happens, but don't want to write it off yet Tagged as: Question - 2 February 2012 4 Answers - Newest, 3 February 2012 A male age 36-40, anonymous writes: We have been going out for 10 months. Savor the simple things -- spending the day at the park together, holding hands under a starry sky or a simple dinner out with friends. Or, perhaps she had a past relationship that ended badly, so she's less comfortable speeding things along in this new relationship.

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Take it slow, see what happens, but don't want to write it off yet

she wants to take it slow and see what happens

A derivative of Andrew Carnegie's quote: Put all your eggs in one basket and the defend the hell out of that basket. Putting all your eggs in one basket is the best way to go through life. I'm sorry but this is an incredible petty argument. I'm not even sure where Reed City is. I don't wanna get played and get stringed along with her. When she is ready and she wants to talk, then you could assess the relationship. Dating is a challenge for everyone.

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What Does It Mean to “Take Things Slow?”

she wants to take it slow and see what happens

If you can't take the risk, don't date. It would seem the conversation about lack of physicality would occur early, ie. But I find it essentialist and slightly cynical to make the claim on an absolute level that when a woman wants to take things slow, she is being consciously manipulative. It means you two are taking time to get to know one another and making an investment in one another. Women want to be pushed for sex. I was confused as hell what did she mean by take it slow. To get your ex back, you need to know what was really turning her off and then make the necessary adjustments to your way of thinking and behavior so that when you interact with her, you will be giving her the attraction experience that she actually wants.

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What does it mean when a girl says she doesn't want to rush into a relationship and wants to take things slower?

she wants to take it slow and see what happens

The love that her and I share is more important than career, friends or family. Having where things stand be in an unknown standing will only make problems. I think partly due to she needs space. The most difficult part was more to keep them at bay and try to calm them down a bit. You say anything more than 5 dates without anything physical happening is taking advantage of a man, and I agree to an extent. I wrote this a long time ago on another board.


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Guys, when a girl tells you she wants to take things slow, what do you think that means?

she wants to take it slow and see what happens

When you hurt a person by your comments, you don't expect an apology to erase it and take it as it never happened before. Instead of giving in to your fast-track mind, rushing to a level that she isn't ready for, practice patience. Later she called back and said that she was upset because I didn't offer to help and and I said what did you want me to do. A don't want to make a mistake b afraid of getting hurt, c enjoyed spening time with me more than she thought d was fighting the feelings. Or within the first 2 or 3 weeks.

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What do you think when a girl says she wants to take things slow? What if it is because of past experiences? : AskMen

she wants to take it slow and see what happens

I did learn however, an important skill from reading this blog. So I want to take things slower in the future, to really know that I can trust someone before I open up and before we are intimate. I would like to know what my chance is. After telling me he thought we would be great together he started to seem less interested. But I prefer that route than teh crazy burn out whirlwind nonsense that never pans out and leaves you with really bitter feelings of disappointment later. I know this blog is about understanding men but throw a brother some feedback ladies and help me understand you! This also means that you should do the same. If you go half speed, it wouldn't work.

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